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WHO IS AN ALPHA MALE?
An alpha male is an enterprising go getter. He leads through his actions and inspires others to do the same.
Being an apex predator he sits at the top of the social food chain.
His dynamic and energetic personality is infectious and people are just drawn to him like magnet.
The calm demeanour he possesses infuses confidence in others during tough times.
Women sense his masculinity and virility from miles away. She naturally feels soft, submissive and feminine in his presence.
He has this air of mystery around him that drives her wild.
Not only does he have his way with women, but men also look upto him for motivation and guidance.
Winning gives him immense pleasure, he thrives on competition and usually does very well under pressure.
It’s very difficult to control him because he always does things his way which is not in accordance with the norms set by society.
Being smart, charismatic, competent and full of ambition, things usually go his way.
Many feel that thoroughbred alpha males are born not made, but, this is not true. You can develop alpha traits, behaviors and characteristics over time with consistent practice until they become second nature.
STEPS TO BECOMING AN ALPHA MALE:
Read and implement the steps provided below and go from being a hopeless beta to a powerful alpha male:
1. BECOME A BUILDER/FIND YOUR PURPOSE:
At our core, we as men are happiest when we actively put in the time and energy required to build something and see it take form and shape.
Exercising consistently and sculpting the body you desire, or working relentlessly on your business and making it a successful venture are two examples of “building” which we all can relate to.
The act of building is crucial because it gives us agency and purpose which is key to our mental sanity.
They don’t say – “an idle mind is a devil’s workshop” for nothing. When you sit and do nothing everyday you subconsciously allow vices and addictions to enter your life.
Building and working on your purpose is the best way to fill the void we all have in our lives.
This is why you must spend the majority of your day being lazer focused working on your purpose.
Now the question that most of you will have is – WHAT SHOULD I BUILD OR HOW TO FIND MY LIFE PURPOSE?
One way would be to go to your YouTube/Google search history and see what type of content (self help, gaming, fitness, dating, etc. in the form of videos, blogs and podcasts) you consume most of the time.
Doing the above exercise will highlight your interest areas that you are naturally drawn to or have an affinity towards.
Once you have identified your “passion”, the next step would be to create goals (financial, intellectual, self growth, etc.) around it and work on them relentlessly.
Being a builder is the most important characteristic of an alpha male.
A great example of an alpha male who demonstrated this quality was a fictional character known as “Howard Roark” from Ayn Rand’s book The Fountainhead. A free audiobook version is available on YouTube, a must listen for everyone reading this blog.
2. WORK TOWARDS FINANCIAL FREEDOM:
By being financially free you can exercise dominion over the most scarce resource in the world – TIME!
As an alpha male, you must have f*ck you money. This puts you in a position to not take sh*t from others.
It also makes you a free agent having the ability to do whatever you want whenever you want.
So, how to get financial freedom?
Well, the first step is learning to manage the money you already have.
For most of us, money comes in and money goes out, you must avoid this at all cost.
To become an alpha male you must develop the skill of holding on to money.
Practice having money in your wallet and not spending it.
Create a separate bank account and put away 5-10% of your total earning every month into that account. Now let it just sit there and grow over time.
If you have debts then your priority will be to get that paid off first and then start with your monthly savings.
The next step towards financial freedom is to always find ways to make more money. You can do this by asking for hike in salary at your existing job, working on a side hustle, building a business, etc.
The third step towards financial freedom would be to keep you expenses relatively under control at all times.
I am not saying that you should live like a popper and not enjoy life but try to maintain a healthy 3:1 income to expense ratio.
I had started the habit of investing and saving money right from my first job, thanks to my dad who advised me to do that. Hands down the best decision of my life.
Right now I am able to work on my two businesses stress free because of that decision.
Money changes your energy as a man. So get this area of your life handled first. Other areas, for now, can take a back seat.
3. EMBRACE FEMALE NATURE:
Alpha males embrace the hypergamous and raw sexual nature of women without any judgment.
When you work on your purpose and start making good money, women will get naturally drawn to you, so you must devise a strategy to deal with them effectively.
The first thing that you must do is take a weekend off, go someplace where no one can bother you and write down your “dream girl” profile .
Write everything about what you crave or desire in a woman – looks, physical attributes, characteristics, nature, etc.
Be elaborative and write as much as you can in detail. Doing this exercise gives your mind clarity and focus.
Don’t be freaked out if you suddenly start encountering these women in real life.
Now, you must showcase certain alpha characteristics to maintain attraction once they start popping up.
Fundamentally you must understand that women crave your authority and direction and you as a man crave her submission and unspoken devotion.
Keep the above blueprint in mind while engaging or interacting with women in any capacity.
I have subliminal affirmations on the topic of love, dating, seduction and sex which will be of great help to you in getting your frame of mind right in this area.
Possessing looks, money, status, physique, etc. is great for short term attraction and flings. But, your behavior and mindset will determine long term success.
By behavior I mean you must have a completely non-judgemental attitude towards women. Never show signs of being butt hurt by her shit tests and past experiences.
If she notices any hint of judgement and repression in your behavior then you’ll get no play. Act calm and unfazed at all times.
You must also have a take it or leave it attitude with women (abundance mindset). She must always be in a scarcity mindset with you because she knows that you’re a high quality male with a lot of options.
How do you show an abundance mindset? I’ll give you two ways – (1) Checking her and (2) Walking away.
Check a woman if she shows slight disrespect towards you (comes late on dates, or is on her phone the entire time you’ll are together). Don’t stay silent say something.
The idea of checking a woman is that it shows her you have a spine. It’s a great way of projecting your masculinity.
If she starts mistreating you then just walk away. Don’t go back and forth with her. Stop all communications till she reaches out to you first.
I have outlined the basics for you, now add your own “twist” to the equation and create your own personal dating philosophy.
Doing all the above feeds into your bravado, machismo and masculine essence which unleashes her divine feminine.
4. DEVELOPING A MASCULINE PHYSIQUE:
Strength and power is the first thought that comes to your mind while distinguishing an alpha male from a beta male.
Getting your body right is a must to call yourself an alpha male.
I suggest you work out (gym/cross fit/sports etc.) 3 to 5 times a week.
The idea is that your body should subconsciously communicate strength to the other person whenever they are in your presence.
You will be shocked by the amount of influence you can have over the other person because of your physical prowess. This is because strength plays on people’s primal instincts and urges.
New doors will open up for you and opportunities will start falling into your lap at work and in your sex life. Hope I got your attention now.
Recently I found out that just hanging on pull up bars (double hand and single hand) can develop natural muscle.
Also, rather than doing reps just hold onto weights as long as possible in one position and create tension on the muscle you want to grow. Start with light weights.
Another experiment I am doing right now is combining holding with squeezing.
So for example, in a bicep curl, I pick the weight up, hold and squeeze for as long as I can. No upward downward motion.
I have also incorporated planks into my work out routine, excellent full body work out especially for your core.
One more thing you should look into is ‘stretching and mobility’ exercises.
Do your own research, try stuff out, get a trainer if you have to but be consistent.
You may not see much results in your first year but don’t get disheartened by that, Rome was not built in a day.
Make health and fitness your priority today and don’t neglect it.
5. TRACK AND MONITOR YOUR SLEEP AND DIET:
An alpha male is mentally and emotionally very stable.
From the research I am doing, fixing your sleep and diet alone will take care of 90% of your physical, mental and emotional problems.
To get started, watch the YouTube video below to understand your ‘sleep chronotype’ and learn how you can best adjust your sleeping patterns based on your chronotype [FYI: I am wolf].
As far as diet goes I am working on combining ‘Intermittent Fasting’ with a low carb diet.
Carbs are sugary foods and never really quench your hunger. I always felt hungry and drowsy on a high carb diet.
So instead, I am focusing on consuming high fat, high/moderate protein and low carbs.
I will share results with you in a separate blog post after 3-6 months.
If you’re not into diets then try to eat natural food as much as possible. You can have maximum of 2 cheat days in a week.
6. LEARN THE ART OF FIGHTING AND SELF DEFENCE:
Possessing the ability to protect yourself and your loved ones from danger is the most alpha thing you can do.
Go join a street defence, boxing or martial arts class near you and get your basics like punches, kicks, etc. ironed out.
If you fear pain your mind will freeze in the confrontation phase itself and you won’t be able to react. At this point you are at the opponent’s mercy.
First , become comfortable with physical pain in a controlled environment – i.e., self defence class, martial arts dojo, etc.
Once you get hit a couple of time the fear you had initially will subside considerably.
As fear goes down and your skills go up, you will be able to maintain your composure in a chaotic fight environment and react properly.
One more point to note down is keep your attacks simple, no flashy moves.
Go on youtube and see videos on street fight, read books on fight psychology and get your mind ready now. Remember, prevention is better than cure.
7. NEVER APOLOGIZE, EVER!
Even when you’re wrong its better to just face the music, take the ‘L’ and move on.
However, The word “sorry” should never come out of your mouth.
If someone demands an apology just stand there firm like a statue and say nothing. No matter how awkward it gets.
Protect your pride and ego at all costs.
I have apologized in the past and never felt at peace afterwords.
Remember, alpha males show no remorse.
8. BECOME THICK SKINNED:
There will always be resistance to change so expect your transformation phase to be rocky.
In the beginning, you will face resistance from yourself and once you overcome that you will face resistance from society (family, friends, etc.)
Resistance from others will come in the form of shame and guilt mostly. They will try and impress their world view on you.
Make your mind a fortress, and never allow their negativity to seep in and infiltrate your subconscious.
Also, don’t take any rash emotional decisions under pressure.
One must develop a thick skin in this day and age where herd mentality and sheep pathology is at its peak.
9. FACE YOUR FEARS:
Fear is a subconscious response that kicks in when danger is approaching. However, in today’s day and age, this “flight or fight” reaction is being set off all the time which is negatively impacting our overall health and well being.
I used to have fear of driving, fear of approaching women, and fear of public speaking. I am happy to say that I have overcome all these fears with the help of subliminals, hypnotherapy and taking action while being scared.
Fear cripples us mentally and we must do everything within your power to overcome it.
As an alpha male, you must charge towards your fears and face them head on. Running away from your fears will only make the problem worse.
The truth is that fear is made from a collection of false ideas, assumptions and beliefs that we carry around in our heads for years.
Ideas about ourselves, and ideas about the situation we’re in.
Once we expose these myths and see them for the nonsense they are, fear loses its grip and power over us.
Listen to subliminals or self hypnosis tracks to reduce fear. Doing this consistently will give you the courage to take the first small step towards overcoming fear.
We also have a full course to help you combat fear. If you’re interested then click here: FEARLESS.
10. BECOME WELL READ:
Consume material that will help you function in the real world at a high level.
Read books/Listen to audiobooks on various topics (self help, autobiography, law, economics, history, politics, etc.) and expand your knowledge.
1 or 2 years down the line you will realize you can hold a conversation with anyone.
This is an extremely attractive trait.
Also, work on your vocabulary and learn new words everyday. Don’t be afraid to use them in everyday conversations wherever applicable.
Make yourself a sponge and just absorb as much as you can about the world.
The more you read the more depth you add to your existing knowledge bank. This increases your ability to articulate thoughts more effectively.
11. LISTEN TO ‘ALPHA MALE’ SUBLIMINALS AND HYPNOSIS REORDINGS:
Subliminals and hypnosis recordings are powerful ways to reprogram your subconscious mind.
To understand how they work check out these resources below:
- Are Subliminals Safe Or Evil?
- Do Subliminals Really Work?
- How Long Does It Take For Subliminals To Work?
- Other FAQs
I have created many free subliminals on the topic of becoming an alpha male. You can click the links provided below to listen.
- Website subliminals:
– Alpha Transformation
– Natural Alpha
– Male Power
– Alpha Seducer
– King Alpha
– Dominant Male
– Bad Boy
- YouTube subliminals:
– Become Masculine Playlist (Subliminal Music – Silent Version)
– Become Masculine Playlist (Subliminal Affirmation – 4V Version)
– The Archetype Of The Mature Masculine Playlist (Subliminal Music – Silent Version)
– The Archetype Of The Mature Masculine Playlist (Subliminal Affirmation – 4V Version)
– All Day Alpha – Be An Alpha Male All Time Time
Also, found these extremely powerful hypnosis/meditation recordings on youtube by creator known as ’21st Century Viking’:
- Viking Meditation for boosting arrogance and masculinity
- Viking Meditation (Thunder Power toward success)
if interested, you can also have a look at our premium ‘ALPHA MALE’ course. This will program alpha traits, behaviors and language into your subconscious mind. Includes listening guide and subliminal sessions.
The journey towards being an alpha male is not easy because at every stage you will have to fight your old programming and conditioning.
There will be some off days where you will back slide and cave into your beta tendencies.
Don’t judge yourself when this happens, its all part of the process.
Use the alpha male subliminal and hypnosis sessions linked above in point no. 10 to get faster results.
Some sacrifices (TV, internet, video games) will have to be made to make this journey a success.
Grind hard and be disciplined from Monday to Friday. Then the weekends you can do whatever you want.
Formulate a plan and break it down into actionable daily goals. Before going to sleep write down tomorrow’s to do list.
This way the moment you get up in the morning you know what you have to do without wasting any time.
Let me know if you found this article helpful in the comment section below.
I am signing off now, see you savages later!
— Subliminal Shinobi