You see a smokin’ hot member of the opposite sex and they trigger your deep unsatisfied urges, instead of going over you freeze and they walk away leaving you with a thunderbolt of lust.
What do you do? Go home and take a cold shower? Go to the nearest thirty one flavors and eat thirty of them?
Believe it or not, you have another choice. You can do what Napoleon Hill called ‘transmutation’ of your sexual desires. But what does it mean and how do you do that?
Imagine now … What would happen if you transferred that incredible, automatic, beautiful desire from a desire for sex into a desire for goal achievement? What this requires is a strong goal, clearly stated and well formed with an accompanying visualization of the goal. Every time you have that desire, you immediately visualize your goal. Pretty soon you will be as excited about achieving your goal as you are about chasing down that girl or guy that got away. You effectively train yourself to charge your goal with powerful sexual energy by imagining it whenever you encounter those situations I described above.
W. Clement Stone, a contemporary of Napoleon Hill, said that in order to achieve a goal you need to create a ‘burning desire’ for the achievement of that goal. What better way to transfer the most burning desire of all into the achievement of any goal that you choose?
Your sexual energy is a fantastic gift from God, or Mother Nature, or whatever your belief system happens to be. You can choose to let it frustrate you, or to fulfill it time and again, or use it to powerfully charge your life with fantastic opportunities for creation of your desires. The choice is yours.